A better way

on behalf of the children

and the facts of their lives

A broken social system is not a suitable environment in which to raise children

A healthy and well adjusted child requires a healthy and well adjusted environment in which to grow

There are no better educated minds in regards the prevention and survival of sexual abuse than those who have both prevented and survived.

Author - John Brown :: Keeping in touch with my 22nd Century child.

A communication from my child in the 22nd century.

The 22nd Century child -

A universal Traveler with the benefit of the accumulated knowledge of the past 100 and the next 100 years of life on the planet called Earth and it has been implemented and kept up-to-date.

A communication from my child in the 22nd century came about through writing the pieces following this communication. I felt that it has a touch of authenticity that goes along with it. The author is 100 years hence and is entirely free from the constraints of government,politics, finances and religion and simply lives in an environment in which recent studies have shown that considerably more than 80% of relationships work successfully. The child of the 22nd century is communicating back in time only a hundred years - a hundred years where technology has recorded in infinite details the facts as they are.

Technology has developed software to determine the veracity and the truth of an experience based on the recorded facts. It is simply based on an algorithm which came out of todays open source community.

A communication from my child in the 22nd century.

The 22nd Century child -

A Universal Traveler with the accumulated knowledge of the past 100 and the next 100 years of life on the planet called Earth.

Hi Mum and Dad,

SorryI did not remember to Comm these thoughts to you, I got so involved in learning and discussing something new that the time simply slipped by me or I was asleep because we all stayed up too late talking and sampling foods from more places in the Universe than I can imagine exist and about some of these new understandings coming from our understandings we made of our own planet. It is good that you understand that we get focused and simply lose track of the time and the things that need to be done. That reminds me did you remember to feed those fish? The ones that they regenerated from millions of year old fossils - they're weird - really weird. I guess dad would have to give you some money for the food for them as I simply spent all mine.Tell him it would be great if he looks after them till I get back in a year or two - thanks Dad - heaps.

We went through a part of the Histrom today - it was straight up rad in so many ways - some of the kids said their parents Histroms were terribly embarrassing because of the ignorance at the time. Bobs family paid a fortune to have even ancient stuff like email whatever that is and things called chat and stuff like that put into the Histrom. WOW was that ever primitive stuff- like you said it seems difficult to imagine a society which was so bent on physically, emotionally, psychologically and sexually abusing the childhood population and it helped me to understand how on those times when we get traumatised by an experience how our body sets off all those survival mechanisms and we now know the ways to manage that when it does happen.

I didnt know that there was a time even before you were born when they first began to set things right - its neat to know they did it for the right reasons kids are still the reason every creature in the universe lives for. It took some very dedicated people with real courage to get things happening again when it kept falling of the rails in the beginning. There was a terrible lot of fear over who believed in God the right way and they fought all out wars over it, as I said it must have been the most terrifying time for kids to grow up in and hey you know its really weird they even publicised on a little picture box how many of the "enemy" they killed and they trained so many of their own kids just to kill their enemies.Kenny reckons they all had heads filled with thermorock. It caused wars about all sorts of weird things and ideas but the horrors they were committing in trying to fix the problems were making them all very sick and more and more angry and defensive. You would think they could see that they were making much of the problem for themselves.

MumI was so upset at times that I knew I would need some time to Comm with you about it because some of it was the stuff they said was much of the cause of it - I wasn't really prepared for that part and i was lucky  that the Histrom sensed that and shut it off, my Medbot switched in and hypnotically calmed me and Netted for a Trauma Care team. I'm lucky it was not in the old days when they would treat that as a psychiatric problem and drug you up and lock you up and treat you horribly - no wonder so many people went mad and they had so many problems they felt overwhelmed by it all.

The issue of resolving what they called for a long time the clergy abuse crisis, they thought it only existed in their own countries to such a degree. When they realised the global extent of the clergy abuse issue and just how critical it was to their society that should be able to have a society where children are not only safe and protected in words - W O W WW they made so many words about doing it that they fought one another over it again. Weird,really weird times. It was critical in turning things around. When society became so angry at politicians for their failure to act because of their own fears and blindness and when it was realised that it was mostly coming from the fears of the Catholic Church at the time - it had been an integral part of their society for hundreds of years and so many thought that was the way it was supposed to be. The Church wanted it to be different, the governments wanted it to be different - it seemed like everybody wanted it to be different and no-one knew whereto get started because they spent so many years arguing and fighting over who believed in the God the right way or said the right prayers or said a word even was enough to send some of them off into paroxysms of verbalisings about damnation and stuff all of which of course as we know has nothing to do with the way we view God these days.

That Jesus Christ dude had a lot of it right you know, so did Mohammad and there were others but it always seemed to go wrong when men built churches and priesthoods and set themselves up in positions of power and had the commandment of God to bend and manipulate governments and to control the masses of people who simply got into a cycle of wanting better, being angry because it is not and becoming so violent and reactive against all the crimes that were being committed against people and they very often did not understand why - crazy crazy place it must have been - people believing implicitly that they had it right and when they inevitably didn't get it right they adjusted the religion to suit or cover it up - it took a thousand or more years before the full extent of some of the things they got wrong was shown in the fact that for all the thousand or more years of learning and education they simply had not found a means to reduce the numbers of sexually abusive priests below that of the general population - in effect totally in-effective. That should have been a real red flag but it went almost un-noticed.

There were other terrible things that occurred, some were documented very well, however the leaders simply didn't acknowledge that their whole nation had been traumatised by an attack right down to the president himself. It went really bad for a long time and no one will ever know just how many human beings were killed because of the reaction. They didn't recognise it as a part of a cycle of war traumatising whole nations and subsequently whole nations going to war over it or something else - in the heat of the moment and with the need of the Church to remain innocent in the face of the facts the whole population of the planet was expected to believe that and many did. I mean can you believe that today - at least they would not send you to a shrink for brain chemical drugging because of that strange old idea that trauma causes illness of the brain - they hadn't cottoned onto the idea that it was psychological damage that was done and yes the body did get a lot of sickness from it as well, they never related the fact that this had been a practice that had gone on so long and it had worried the Church so much that over time it had become obsessed with all things sexual and with procreation - strewth they would let that happen today and I really am pleased that having a child is an entirely mutual decision, it didnt take a lot of science in the finish to do it - they worked off an idea that some chemicals could turn off the potency of sperm from the male and do the same with a female; when people had the real freedom of choice without the religious influence of a group of out of touch men who had never pro-created or had a close and legitimate relationship with a member of the opposite sex so many chose it when it was shown to have so few managable side effects that it was almost negligible. They said it would never have been developed if the Church had continued with its denial. The Church was so powerful and influential that it kept science way back in society. It controlled most of that through keeping psychology and the facts it produced out of the picture and kept up a series of campaigns to set the agenda for the whole society and they used the fear and the power of God to get there - WOW - and they were so impossibly unable to accept that they were acting like enraged infertile anti-social inwardly looking men who had virtually unlimited power. There were amongst the largest commercial enterprises known at the time and got their way because of the influence of God (dear God how he must despise those men for what they did in your name). I am full of tears for all the children sexually raped and not even their Governments would come to their help.They were simply too afraid of the power these men without real experience of life to say no to them and so the world had to live in a strange violent, irrational, sexually abusive place where children everywhere were having their world torn apart and along with it went their hope of a life - not even a better life for some of them, they just wanted to live. They never did count how many human beings that caused the death of but eventually when the numbers got too high and the government realised that the people would soon turn against them if they did not act on the knowledge they had. It was lucky I think that they did otherwise they probably would have found another reason to go to war with one another over it and so it would have kept on.

I guess they did not think for a minute that these things might be associated - they simply seemed unable to understand that at the time.

Human survival depends on the need to make us blind to whatever it is that has panicked us to the point of traumatising us. I don't think evolution ever had to take into account the fact that our wars would be able to grow to such a scale that the entire population was in some sort of trauma or another at so many times.

It simply wasn't understood that they simply needed to see the reality of it all to be able to manage it - duh - they used to call that denial and even though they knew that it was their own denial that prevented them from stopping what they were doing they could not get themselves out of the cycle long enough to actually bring it to a stop. I mean can you believe that - get a new planet or something - they say it was even more primitive than that earlier on but not much of the information is left about that and so much of it is unreliable. It was everywhere and it must have been the most horrible time in the whole universe for kids growing up in the middle of that - you simply did not know who was going to be the next one to abuse you at the least or to sexually abuse you at the worst - is it any wonder the kids of those days were stressed off their faces until they lost their cool and became angry and hurt people in ways they did, the adults did that too. They should have been living in caves instead of the grand cities they built and as for being good parents they simply had so much of that wrong and they blamed us kids for most of it - WoW do you want to tell me something that will bend my mind then tell me that again.

The ideas came partly from a game kids used to play in cyberspace - I think that is what we call "Us" or sometimes Comms. Anyway some Government funded a program which came out for a while as a game, they actually gave it away. I think it was to get real life data and experience, anyway they simply set a target to build a virtual environment where it mimicked  human life in that it focused on society and relationships and the benefit of children and at the same time it measured how successfully a person was able to travel through the life and be successful. They learnt enough from it to be able to see where they themselves were playing a huge part in causing many of their society's ills and when you added to that a number of their Churches had the same or similar problems and that really was the straw that broke the back of a adromadry - its some kind of ship used to carry straw and they all apparently eventually break; I missed that part a bit and never did understand it, I mean why would you build something to break it? I guess when you look at the way it was all going just about anything would have been possible and seemingly logical to them. Hey! I wouldn't have had a chance to go on this holiday knowing I am safe. There is no-one here who is hung up about what their parents were afraid of or what some men said was the word and the power of God.

That made some fortunes for a while, I think they said it cost tens of billions of their money and only made more people angry and sad. They were very evidently doing one  thing and saying another and nobody wanted to say "hey excuse me like they do if that ever happens here",at least they quickly realise that they had hurt someone. They used to pull the bodies apart with rack things and burn them tied up and they would hold endless courts over whether some atomic level event had been the cause of all the tragedy and they would unknowingly inflict so much harm in order to prove themselves right. Hey, I'm glad to know you wouldn't let me go to a place like that. I know when I feel like that that you have not only said you loved me but you actually found your way over your own hurdles to make sure the way was safe for me -knowing that I never have a need to ask you or to hear you say you love me - I simply know it, just like all the rest of us here. Gotta go, hey I still haven't found one of those old fashioned parents or the good catholics your grandpa used to warn you about. I'll keep my eyes out as I am sure that with all the factual knowledge and the support you guys give us we will be able to spot on of those miles away and give them a wide berth.

They could have done it a hundred different ways but that was the way it was.



On the sexual abuse, exploitation & deception of children

There is no excuse for sexual abuse according to our law and government except when the abuse has been carried out by Catholic clergy.

"This is a matter for the church and I respect the internal judgements of the church. I don’t stand outside the church and provide them with public lectures in terms of how they should behave..."

Kevin Rudd, Prime Minister of Australia, 17 July 2008.


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This is perhaps the most horrific act of abandonment perpetrated against the children of a specific religion by an Australian head of State and is recorded in our history for perpetuity as being made by Kevin Rudd on 17 July 2008, when he spoke in regards those affected by the sexual abuses carried out by Catholic clergy.http://www.pm.gov.au/media/Interview/2008/interview_0363.cfm

This is a deeply flawed and invalid response both morally and legally which includes all victims of clergy abuse being referred over to the leader of the Catholic Church or the respective leaders of other Churches or Religions when quite clearly sexual abuse by clergy is a phenomena found in many Churches and religions and it simply is not within the Prime Ministers realm to pass responsibility for those sexually abused by Catholic and non-Catholic clergy over to the Catholic church or anyone else.

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Is it any wonder our children are confused?

No wonder our children are confused - if we continually send confusing messages to our children then it is us who is acting irrationally when we demand the right to sanction them for acting in the same way we do, or in the same way our Government services do.

No amount of resources, education, laws, treatments or levels of incarceration and sanctions can educate a child to function both successfully and rationally in a society when the very society which is demanding that is unable itself to function at the levels demanded. There is no rational response to such an irrational situation.

Is it any wonder so many are confused?

Government and our religions are unable to provide and implement successful strategies in regards sexual abuses by clergy and other in the community.

Government and our religions repeatedly and stubbornly refuse to consult with the victims of these abuses by clergy and others in the community and their carers and advocates.

Is it any wonder so many are abused and re-abused?

How can they expect our children to act in a more adult and responsible manner, a manner which is above the examples set by our Governments and religious.

How irrational and foolish are we when we use sanctions against those who are unable to perform on demand at a higher level than those applying the sanctions.

Is it any wonder our children think we are foolhardy and stupid?

Of course we can always sanction our children severely for saying that we got it wrong. We can also sanction them for getting it wrong themselves in a confused world. Their need to survive and remain accepted as children will simply cause them to cede to those sanctions. This simply shows that if you beat a child hard enough and demand that he agree with you they must if they simply want to be loved by their parents and elders. If they want to ever experience the love of those who sanction they simply have no choice but to cede and conform to the power held over them - this use of power proves nothing other than acknowledging the fact that you can force someone into submission. It in no way proves your are on the right track.

Quite simply if these men genuinely had the ear of God as they say, it simply would not have taken 500 years as in the case of Mr Galilei and the shape of the earth, nor would it take very long to resolve the sexual abuse issue if they simply had 10 seconds with God.

It is clear that they simply do not have that line to Jesus Christ because quite simply if they did they would act differently.

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